Fifty Shades Darker (Book 2) by E.L. James (REVIEW)

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How to Calm down an Angry Wife

So recently I had an argument with my husband and I was really angry. My husband didn't know what to do so I decided to post an article I found on the internet which gives guys ideas as to how to calm down an angry wife. 

Fifty Shades of Grey–BOOK 1 review (on viewsandreviews.ca)

 

Book one of Fifty Shades of Grey is written by E L James and has received a lot of attention from the media. E L James has appeared on a lot of talk shows and has gained a lot of publicity.

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When you want to Bitch-Slap your guys mom

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No matter how fabulous you are, there's a decent chance that your man's mom might be a total beast to you. According to Terri Apter, PhD, author of What Do You Want From Me? Learning to Get Along With In- Laws, 60 percent of women report having a negative relationship with their guy's mother (compared to just 15 percent of men who say they have tension with their significant other's mom). "She's worried that you're going to usurp her role, and she has to adapt to no longer being the most influential female figure in her son's life," Apter explains. And sometimes she "adapts" by being critical, controlling, nosy, invasive...you name it. Save yourself the fury and headaches and be strategic right from the start.

Don't Be a Pussy
Some women make the mistake of bending over backward to win a difficult mother's approval. "But this puts you in a subservient position that she can then take advantage of," Apter says. "It will be a challenge for you to stand up for yourself in the future." Rather, you have to walk the line between acting like an alpha female while also being respectful to her.

How to Win a guy in 10 Seconds (FUNNY)

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Sure, you could put on a sexy outfit, give him flirty looks, and hope he gets the message. Or you could follow these pieces of advice from comedian Amy Schumer and guarantee that you get laid tonight.

1. Approach him at a bar and say in a sexy voice, “Hi, do you have gonorrhea? Do you want it?” 

2. Make out with your hand, giving it some long, wet, sensual kisses, to ensure he’s aware of your skills.

3. Casually drop your birth control prescription in front of him so he knows you're down to party.

4. Wear a maternity shirt and say, “Dress for the job you want, right?”

5. Insult everything about him so he thinks you’re better than him. That’s a huge turn-on.

6. Talk about all your favorite Ani DiFranco and Tori Amos songs, then offer to sing him a medley of each one.

7. Let him know that you don’t swallow because of your nut allergy.

8. Begin sobbing uncontrollably out of nowhere, and refuse to explain why. Men love mystery.

9. If he offers to buy you a drink, request a vodka cranberry and mention that you’ve been trying to kick this UTI for weeks.

10. Ask to borrow his phone then erase all the numbers but yours. He’ll know you mean business. He may be mad now, but he'll appreciate it later.

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12 Ways to break an engagement Nicely

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Breaking an engagement is never easy to do. It is always harsh. No matter who you are, it can be a sad moment. It is best to break the engagement now before you get married and then look for ways to get a divorce. We only live once and we do not live long enough to be married to someone we do not want to be married to. As much as the other person’s feelings matter, you cannot trick yourself into loving them. Here are some ways to break off an engagement.

12. Give him the ring back

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Many girls have a tendency to forget to give the ring back and hold on to it. Why would you want to hold on to it? By giving the ring back, this is letting him down nicely. It’s like saying “thanks, but no thanks.”

11. Write a note

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Writing a note sounds like a good idea. This way, you will be able to place your words exactly how you want to place them. If you need to start over, then you backspace or throw the paper away and write another one out. You can brainstorm before you write things down. This way, you are making sure you are saying it nicely.

10. Leave a message explaining it on his phone

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Before you leave a message explaining it on the phone, you need to sit down and think about what you are going to say. You do not want to be rude during this message.

9. Send an email

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Sending an e-mail is just like writing a letter. Sometimes, it is the best way to go. Type it out and hit send. You do not have to worry about delivering the message to him. Technology will do it all for you.

8. Sit down and explain it to him

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My choice would be to sit down and explain it all to him. Explain why you do not want to get married. It is best to tell him that it’s not his fault.

7. Tell him “I’m sorry, but…”

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“I’m sorry, but I just don’t want to be married yet. You’re a nice guy and all and if I wanted to get married, I would marry you, but I want to wait a bit longer, so here’s your ring back.” That’s all you have to say. Tell him nothing will change your mind.

6. Tell him you need to go to college first

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If you have never went to college, then tell him you need to go to college first. Let him know that it will be far away and him moving is not an option. You need to have your full concentration and being married to someone will not give that. You need to think of yourself.

5. Talk with him about your change of heart

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When you talk to him, it is important to explain your change of heart to him. What caused you to make this decision? Is there another guy? Do you not see a future? What is it?

4. Be honest

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When you speak with him, it is important to be honest. Give him enough respect and do not lie to him. If you cheated on him, then tell him. If you can’t marry him because of your religious beliefs are different (I have heard of this one), then let him know.

3. Don’t be rude

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When you are speaking with him, do not be rude. Expect him to get upset, he may even yell a bit. Let him know that you are sorry for wasting his time. Show respect.

2. Don’t yell

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In number 3, I told you he may yell. When he yells at you, do not yell back at him. I am not saying to sit there and take it, but at least speak calmly. Two people getting upset is no good. If push comes to shove, say what you need to say and then leave.

1. Ask him/her if things are meant to be

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Tell him you two are not meant to be married. It is best if you just remain friends. You come from two different worlds and cannot see yourself marrying him.
Those are 12 nicest ways to get out of an engagement. After you do this, you may want to look at my other blog post on here, “ways to avoid your ex.” So, are you in an engagement and need to get out? Is there a reason? Have you ever ended an engagement?





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12 most Common things couples argue over and How to Avoid it

Anyone who is in a relationship is going to argue with their partner. It is something that is inevitable. Did you ever wonder what other couples argue about? Well, I have done my research and have found some things couples argue about. So, here is what couples argue about…

12. Children

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The disputes and discussions about children are never going to end. You may fight whether you should have children or not. Then, once you have kids, you will fight about how to raise them, what they eat, how your family thinks you should raise them, how much money to spend on them, how long the hair should be, who they should hang out with, how many video games they should have, their bedtime… and the list will go on.
Work it out – The best thing to do would be to communicate. While you may never agree with one another, you can find an agreement that you both agree with.

11. Career

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Do you both work or does one work? How much time are you willing to let the other individual devote to their career? Does it affect your family time? Do you like your partner going on business trips all the time?
Work it out – sit down and speak with one another about this. Plan some time together and show them that the career does not always get in the way. Tell them that is how you make money to help do your part in the family. You may also want to plan a vacation to look forward to.

10. Money

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Yes, couples argue over money. I have always said I would never let money come in between my marriage and I am succeeding at that one.
Work it out – Having no money can be stressful, but as long as you have each other, you can work it out. Try some better financial planning.

9. Sex

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Yes, a good sex life with your partner would be nice. It helps the bond grow deeper and stronger. The longer couples are together, the greater their sex life will suffer. This is a common area couples argue about.
Work it out – Again, sit down and talk to each other. You should be open with your partner. Tell him/her what you like. Tell them what you do not like. Voice your opinion.

8. Housework

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Housework is something that we all have and it is a big conflict between many couples. If the partner feels they are putting in more effort in cleaning the house, then it can bring up an argument.
Work it out – Love and respect are the ingredients in a relationship. Housework has a tendency to become a battleground where you fight for those ingredients. Sit down together and talk to one another about the housework. How did your parents handle it? How does it affect you today?

7. Leaving the toilet seat up

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Yes, if you are a female, then you may know exactly what I am talking about. Does your guy leave the toilet seat up or is he considerate and KNOWS his aim is not as good as he thinks it is? Believe it or not, many couples argue about this.
Work it out – You could always write a letter in bold letters and post it on your toilet or you could constantly remind them to put the toilet seat up when they pee. One day, it’ll sink into their head.

6. Toenail clippings

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Okay, do they clip their toenails and leave them laying around on the couch? How annoying is this? I am never at the root end of this one, but it sounds annoying!
Work it out – Speak with them and tell them how it disturbs you.

5. The in-laws

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Arguments about the in-laws can come up in many cases. Those in-law jokes did not just write themselves.
Work it out – Speak to your partner and tell them what you do not like about the in-laws. Maybe the two of you can work something out with the in-laws. Prioritize your own relationship and work as a team. Never side with the parents or disagree with your spouse.

4. Snoring

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Yes, snoring can be an annoying topic. I actually watched a Dr. Phil show on having a partner that snored a lot. Not everyone can solve this problem and go get it fixed.
Work it out – Sorry, for this one, the way to work it out either involves sleeping in another room or wearing ear plugs. I chose to wear ear plugs each night.

3. What movie to watch

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Yes, many partners argue over which movie they should watch. This is especially true if the girl likes romance movies and the guy is an action kind of guy.
Work it out – Take turns picking out a movie. One week, let the girl pick the movie out and the next week, let the guy pick the movie out.

2. What to have for dinner

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This one may seem strange, because my husband and I always find something for dinner we agree with, but there are some that come from total different worlds.
Work it out – One night have your favorite and the next night have his favorite. Don’t always go with what you want to have. You may want to have an alternative available for those times where the other partner finds the food disgusting. Taste buds are different.

1. Ex-spouses and boyfriends/girlfriends

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Some couples have another person to worry about. They worry if they were as good in bed or if they are as good at cooking dinner.
Work it out – Realize that he or she is with you and not the other person. Speak with him or her about whatever is bothering you.
Most of all, when you are arguing with one another, you should not let it get out of control. If you have children, don’t let them see you arguing. Learn to sit down and speak with one another in a loving manner. Do you have problems in your marriage? What do the two of you argue about the most?




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Ridiculous excuses men use to break up

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Well, according to my dating experience and to the experience of my girlfriends, “It’s not you, it’s me.” line isn’t the most ridiculous one men came up with to break up with us. There’s lots more where that came from!
I’ve just put together a list of 20 Ridiculous Break Up Phrases from Men I’ve ever heard of and my translation of what they really mean!
Have you heard even better ones than these? Please share them with me and we’ll complete this list together! ;)

1. “I’m just not ready for a relationship right now, but if I were… you’d be the one!”

aka:”I’m still not ready to spend the rest of my life sleeping with one person, but if I were, it might be you.”

2. “I still really care about you.”

aka: “… Just not enough to really date you or spend much time with you. But I still care!”

3. “I’d love to still be friends and hang out after all this.”

aka: “Can you hook me up with your hot friends after you get over me dumping you?”

4. “I just really need to focus on (fill in the blank… school, job, God, whatever) right now.”

aka: “I don’t think you’ll take this break-up well, but you can’t argue with this one.”

5. “I’m moving to a foreign country, but I’ll call you when I get back.”

aka: “I’ve got to get away from you, fast!”

6. “You can do so much better than me!”

aka: “And I know I can do so much better than you!”

7. “It has been so great getting to know you, but I think we need to spend time with other people.”

aka: “I’ve already met someone I’d rather spend more time with.”

8. “I’ve got a fear of commitment.”

aka: “I’ve got a fear of being tied to you for life!”

9. “I’m feeling smothered, and I just need to get some space.”

aka: “You’re way too in my business, too fast – I am ready to get you out.”

10. “The guy who marries you is so lucky!”

aka: “I just hope I’m not that lucky!”

11. “I think we need to see other people and just see what happens.”

aka: “I’m already sleeping with someone else, and I’m just telling you this before you find out.”

12. “I still want to be with you, but I just want to take a break.”

aka: “I want to try sleeping around, but keep you close in case I can’t find anyone else.”

13. “I’ve got a lot of issues I need to work on right now.”

aka: “My main issue is that I’m just not that into you.”

14. “I feel like you’re more of a friend than a girlfriend to me.”

aka: “You’re just not as cute as you were when we started dating.”

15. “I just need something more.”

aka: “I’m not sure what more is, but I’m kind of bored, and this line sounds really convincing.”

16. “I’m still not over my ex.”

aka: Ouch. This one’s probably true.

17. “I wish we’d met five years from now instead.”

aka: “I’m really not that mature right now, but I probably will be in five years, and then I could’ve made a great boyfriend/husband!”

18. “We’re just in totally different places in our lives!”

aka: “I’m in this place called I Want to Go Out Drinking, Partying, and Sleeping Around, and you’re in this place called Let’s Settle Down, and those two places don’t fit well together.”

19. “I just respect you so much.”

aka: “Please don’t tell your friends I’m a jerk, because I might want to date some of them.”

20. “I think we got too close, too fast.”

aka: “When you put your toothbrush beside mine in the bathroom, that really freaked me out.”






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12 tips for A New Relationship

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Irrespective of how successful your relationship ends up being, the start is supposed to be one of the best times and something you reminisce about for years… but I always find my friends worrying about doing something wrong rather then dreaming of the next date. Do you do the same? It’s such hard work knowing what to do, so I’ve decided it’s time there was a guide! Here’s my top twelve tips for starting new relationships!

1. Are you ready?

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If you’ve just had a breakup, it can be easy to want someone else’s arms to cuddle up in. But remember, it’s just a rebound and won’t lead to a healthy relationship-, so make sure you are feeling good about yourself and ready for a new relationship before you start!

2. Numbers

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Common friends are a great way to meet eligible men. Extend your friendship circle. It can be easy to think that you don’t know anyone, but if you utilize your friends and contacts you’ll find a whole new friendship circle. Whether you just make lots of friends or end up finding Mr. Right, it’s a surprisingly easy way to meet new people!

3. Blind Dates

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How many people do you dismiss because of what they look like or what they are doing, without even talking to them? Blind dates are the perfect way to talk to people you would usually dismiss, or just to meet new people. Give everyone a chance, and see where it leads. He may just end up being the man of your dreams!

4. Introduction Agencies

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These can be expensive, but they are worthwhile! Each member is interviewed, and discusses what they like, dislike, what their hobbies are and are looking for in lots of detail. The agency then matches members with the members they feel they are most likely to get on with, and sends them on dates to see how they get on. You stay a member until you find a partner.

5. Ask them out…

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So now you’ve found the person you are interested in, it’s time to do something together. Most people make the mistake of planning a meal for two, but this can be awkward if you find conversation doesn’t flow easily. Instead, choose a group activity, such as bowling and try to invite mutual friends or each bring someone for support. That’s much less awkward, and having fun together is a brilliant way to bond!

6. Read his body language

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Once he’s in front of you, pay attention to his body language. If he’s interested, there should be lots of eye contact, and he should occasionally mirror your own body language. He should nod while listening to you, and breathe in tune with you. These are all easy signs to pick up on, and gauge his interest.

7. First Date

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Now it’s time to ask him out and arrange a proper first date. A movie and a meal is a good idea  but make sure you get time to talk. Cinema dates can leave both people feeling a little confused, as there isn’t time to talk and bond. My boyfriend and my first date was to a coffee shop… we still visit it, and it brings back such memories!

8. Make contact

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If you had a good night, text them and let them know. Silly first date rules about waiting a certain length of time will leave the other person confused and you frustrated, so send them a text and wait for them to respond. You’ve got nothing to lose!

9. Decide what to do next

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Before you agree to a second date, think about if you actually want one. If it helps, make a list, and see where it leads you. However, remember that first dates are extremely nerve wracking, so unless there is a huge fault with the person, agree to a second date and you’ll see more of who they actually are.

10. Take things further

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Forget the silly rules about third dates, and only take things further when you are feeling ready and happy about it. Make sure that you use contraceptives, and remember that sex is worth waiting for. If he won’t wait and seems desperate, he isn’t going to be a good partner!

11. Be careful

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So many of my friends have gone to third or fourth dates, waited five minutes and come home, feeling devastated and furious that he hasn’t turned up. Remember that there are circumstances that mean he might be late, or be unable to contact you. Mistakes do happen, so try to be forgiving, and give the relationship a chance. That said, never wait more than twenty minutes with no contact from him. There are much better ways to have fun!

12. Friends forever?

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Remember that even if your relationship doesn’t last the length of time, you could have a friendship that does. Also, make sure you still have time for your friends, even when you are obsessed with him and want to spend every second with him, as they will be your support blanket if things go wrong. Remember, boyfriends come and go but friends are for life!
I’ve given this guide to a few friends now, and I’m hoping it will help them to enjoy the first stages of new relationships, rather than worry! Why not see if it works for you too? You might find that it gives you the kind of moments you want to tell your grand-kids about, rather then stressful ones you don’t want to think about! Have you got a tip for new relationships? Please let me know!


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10 Tips to get your Boyfriend Back

So you split up, but now you’re regretting it. Is it possible to get your boyfriend back? While a lot depends on the circumstances and the people involved, in general most people take a while to move on and good relationships can be rekindled. Here are my top ten tips on how to get your boyfriend back.

10 Ways to Impress someone on a First Date...

From nail biting to constant foot tapping, first dates are always nerve wracking. What do you wear? Where do you go? How do you impress the person across the table? This is what I’m here to help with. These are the best ways to impress someone on a first date and make sure that you get another!